Un marco sistemático para entender (y acaso predecir) las relaciones vinculantes en el amor en las parejas

José Padua

Resumen


A systematic framework to understand (and maybe predict) bonding relations between couples in love

Is it possible to predict a couple’s behavior? The main hypothesis is that through a certain criteria it can be not only defined, but also predicted. This criteria are: subjective factors about the amorousness’ experience, communication patterns, perception of time, humor, the oneself’s and the relationship’s definition according to each member of the couple, a common project, and sexuality. Each relationship and each member of the couple gets involved in different ways; this is called degree of involvement and is defined as the quantity of actions, emotions, thoughts and behaviors that each person does or has for the other. Another important indicator is the degree of inevitability: the lack of capability of a person or a couple to control their thoughts, behavior and their emotions towards the binding object.

Key Words. Amorousness’ experience, communication patterns, time perception, humor, oneself’s definition, common project, sexuality, degree of involvement, degree of inevitability.


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